Remember that thread that zpyder posted in..

[Binary Shadow]

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Dont text often no, tend to catch her on facebook chat in the evenings these days

[knighty]

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facebook chat is just as good ;-)

it's a fine line to walk.... being yourself while trying to move things forwards

you can always drop it into the conversation with something like (she asks a question) you = "ok then, but only if you let me kiss you goodnight" etc...

all you need to do is figure out if she just wants to be mates of there's more too it... it doesn't matter how long things take after that as long as you know you're both on the same page :-)

[Beanissocoollike]

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just because the girl has never had a BF, doesnt mean she has never kissed a guy.

I never said that, I said if. I don't assume all people who've never had boyfriends haven't kissed someone before. It just seems from what I can gather that she's not exactly going to be the one to initiate everything

[Clock'd 0Ne]

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I prefer the plunge in and give it to them approach. They'll either be offended or swept off their feet by it

Under these circumstances though, it would seem tact is in order and you could get well away with playing the chivalrous gentleman.

[matt5cott]

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Under these circumstances though, it would seem tact is in order and you could get well away with playing the chivalrous gentleman.

I suppose it is better than shoving your tongue down her gob, then chanting USA! USA! USA! in victory.,

[Binary Shadow]

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I suppose it is better than shoving your tongue down her gob, then chanting USA! USA! USA! in victory.,

LOL I wont be trying that!

RAR! She really likes me apparently  

[matt5cott]

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RAR! She really likes me apparently  

[knighty]

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RAR! She really likes me apparently  

woot :-)


got a bit of a hop in your step now then ?

[Clock'd 0Ne]

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Excellent news

[Binary Shadow]

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Awesome, should be seeing her again saturday (3 weekends in a row, im like a kid at christmas) 

[bear]

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[Eggtastico]

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Kiss her before the date, so it doesnt build up into a huge nervous moment.
Just be confident & tell her at the start that you think you should kiss now
so you both dont become a bag of nerves by the end of the night.

[BigSoy]

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I still don't get this tell her this tell her that stuff... body language speaks much louder than words. Hold hands, arm around waist, hips together and it'll kissy kissy before you know it. 

[Binary Shadow]

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Hold hands, arm around waist, hips together and it'll kissy kissy before you know it. 

This stuff doesnt come easy to us of the shy persuasion

[Clock'd 0Ne]

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Mate you just do what feels natural, if that means asking for a kiss or going for a full on arse-grabbing tongueathon choose your own preference. Women can be as terrible with body language as men, there's no one trick for every person/couple. Let your own instincts guide you or you won't be true to yourself.