ahh well she had a list of reasons it wouldn't work so ended it
distance (about an hrs drive between us, didn't bother me)
not enough time together (not my fault at all she wouldn't make the time)
nothing in common, fair point i guess
she couldn't see it lasting long term, i disagreed
Im pretty gutted, i dont think she was as into me as I was her but I'll never really know.
Did all i could but she had made up her mind so that's that and I'm devastated tbh and fairly drunk just now as well lol